are much younger than, just as women
marry men much older than they are?
A lot of debate has been raised over the
connection between age and love.
For many people, it is proper for a woman to date
an older man.
So it is normal to see a lady of 20-25 years of age
openly dating a man twice her age or more.
Society sees it as a norm and no one complains.
It is however not the same with men.
A man who finds love in an older woman is in
most cases seen as a gigolo, offering sex for
financial rewards.
While this may be true in many cases, it cannot be
denied that some men have genuinely found older
women more appealing.
In a recent article in the Joan on Sex series, a 30-
year-old man asked if his preference of older
women is strange.
Fo Wha'anda, it depends on the individual in
question.
Right or wrong only comes up as a matter of
preference.
It s believed that older women are naturally more
mature and easier to handle than the vivacious,
younger ones who are yet to 'see' life.
But, the fact that women age faster than men may
be a problem where a young man hooks up with
an older woman.
The case of Nick Cannon and Mariah
Carey » is a pointer.
So, Wha'anda asks today: Is it cool, advisable,
wise for men to date, love and marry women older
than they are?
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